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Clergy

June 24, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Our Clergy

Bet Aviv’s clergy consists of our Rabbi, Linda Joseph, and our cantorial soloist, Beth Rubens. Bet Aviv is also blessed with a Rabbi Emeritus,  Seth Bernstein, a Rabbi Emeritus, Marc Lee Raphael, and a Cantor Emeritus, Margery Auerbach.

Rabbi Linda Joseph joined Bet Aviv in 2019, following her most recent service as rabbi at Har Sinai in Baltimore.  You can learn more about Rabbi Joseph by clicking here.

Beth Rubens joined Bet Aviv in January 2022 as our Cantorial Solist.  You can read more about our cantorial solist by clicking here.

Our most recent rabbi, Seth Bernstein served from July 2011 until June 2019, when he retired.  You can learn more about his distinguished career by clicking here.

Our first rabbi, Marc Lee Raphael was with us from our inception until 2011.  We were fortunate to have such an astute scholar serve as our rabbi for so long.  You can read about his accomplishments by clicking here.

Cantor Margery Auerbach served Bet Aviv from 2001 until her retirement in 2014.  She and her husband Jim remain a vital part of our congregation.  You can read about Cantor Auerbach by clicking here.

 

Our Rabbi Emeritus

June 24, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Our Clergy

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Marc Lee Raphael was rabbi of Bet Aviv from 1998 to 2011. He is also the Nathan and Sophia Gumenick Professor of Judaic Studies, Professor of Religious Studies and Chairman of the Department of Religious Studies at The College of William and Mary. He recently completed a twenty-year term as editor of the quarterly journal, American Jewish History, and edited The History of Jews and Judaism in America, published in 2009, for Columbia University Press. This same press published his Judaism in America. In 2005, The College of William and Mary published his Towards a “National Shrine” : A Centennial History of Washington Hebrew Congregation, 1855-1955, the most recent in a long list of books he has written and edited on the history of Jews and Judaism in the United States. Also, Rabbi Raphael wrote A History of the Synagogue in America for New York University Press that will be published in 2011. A native of Los Angeles, Professor Raphael is a graduate of the University of California, Los Angeles (B.A., History and Ph.D., History) and the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion (M.A., Religion and rabbinic ordination). Residing in Washington, D.C., he frequently leads walking tours of the Washington Jewish community of the nineteenth century (“Of a world that is no more”). He and his wife Linda Schermer Raphael (George Washington University) frequently teach “The Representation of the Holocaust in Literature and Film” using their edited book (Rutgers University Press), When Night Fell: An Anthology of Holocaust Short Stories.

Membership Events

June 24, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Membership

Bet Aviv encourages all prospective members to review our website to get an initial sense for our values. One of the best ways to get to know us is by attending a Shabbat service. So that we can be prepared to welcome you, we ask that you contact Lori Kassoff, our membership chair to let her know you’re coming. Lori can answer any questions you might have.  Once you join, you’ll receive a Welcome Bag with goodies, music and information, that we think you’ll find useful, as well as your name tags, which we hope you will wear to future Shabbat services so that we can learn your name.

During the year Bet Aviv hosts two events specifically geared to new members.

New Member Shabbat

Once a year we highlight members who have joined within the previous year at our New Member Shabbat. New members participate in our service as candle lighters, readers and in the Torah service. It’s a warm tradition that Bet Aviv uses to make our new members feel welcome and part of our family.

New Member Reception

In the fall of each year, we invite our new members to come to a get together whose purpose is three-fold. First we want to impart information about Bet Aviv and answer any questions you might have. Second, it’s a chance for our leaders and Rabbi to get to know our new members. Last, but certainly not least, it’s a chance for our new members to get to know each other in an informal atmosphere. Our goal is to make you feel welcome and let you know the various ways that you can become involved at Bet Aviv.

Our Cantor Emerita

June 21, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Our Clergy

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Cantor Margery Auerbach served as  Bet Aviv’s cantor from February, 2001 through August 2014. Her goal as cantor was to encourage congregational singing and to enhance services with a wide variety of traditional and contemporary Jewish music.

Singing and Jewish music have been part of Cantor Auerbach’s life since childhood. She learned to lead services before Bat Mitzvah age and studied Hebrew at a Student Zionist Organization Ulpan in New Jersey. She sang and was a soloist in choruses throughout high school and college, where she was a member of the Smith College Chamber Singers. She later sang with the Prince George’s Community Chorus and Zemer Chai, a Washington Jewish chorus.

Marge began her cantorial career after thirty years as an educator. After graduating from Smith College with a major in education and a minor in music, she pursued graduate studies in education, receiving a Masters of Education and PhD from the University of Maryland. The transition to a professional cantorial career began when she and her husband joined Tifereth Israel Synagogue in Washington, DC, which uses volunteer cantors to lead all services. Soon Marge was leading Shabbat and High Holiday services. After study, she was able to fulfill her childhood dream of becoming a cantor, receiving cantorial certification from the Maalot Seminary in Rockville, MD in 1998. She also serves Am Kolel Judaic Resource Center as a Jewish Life Cycle Consultant, officiating at weddings, baby namings, Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, funerals, and other services. In addition, she has been High Holidays Cantor at Temple Emanuel in Virginia Beach, Virginia, and has served as guest Cantor in Conservative, Reform, and Reconstructionist congregations throughout the United States.

Cantor Auerbach was married to Jim Auerbach of blessed memory, who served as Senior Vice President at the National Policy Association in Washington, DC, and was author/editor of books and articles on social determinants of health, industrial relations, and income inequality. He was a photographer whose images were shown at numerous exhibitions, and Jim had done volunteer photography for the Kennedy Center and many non-profit organizations.  Marge is the proud stepmother of two grown sons and will be glad to show you pictures of her grandchildren, Jonathan, Cole and Sky.

FAQs

June 20, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Membership

To make your decision about membership easier, we’ve compiled a list of questions that prospective members ask us time and again. This list will probably answer some of the same questions that you have. Should you have a question we haven’t answered here, please contact us so we can provide you with an answer.

1.  What is Bet Aviv’s dues structure?

Bet Aviv’s annual dues cover a calendar year. For 2025, our dues are $675 for a single membership and $1350 for a couple membership. For members who join after July 31st of each year, there is a reduced rate. Membership includes High Holiday tickets for members and their immediate families. Invoices go out to each member household early in the calendar year. Members may choose to pay the amount due in full or in several installments. Payments are accepted by paper check, or online with a credit card (with a nominal fee) or e-check.  Dues must be paid by June 30th of each year.  Special arrangements, if needed, can be discussed in full confidence with the treasurer or president.

2.  Does Bet Aviv have a building fund?

No. Bet Aviv was founded on adherence to the Interfaith Concept. You can read about it by clicking here . In 2004, we became equity owners in the Oakland Mills Interfaith Center in Columbia, where we share space with other Jewish and Christian congregations. Because of this arrangement we do not now, nor do we ever anticipate having a building fund. Many members find this reassuring.

3.  What kind of educational arrangements does Bet Aviv have for children?

Because our focus is on our adult members, Bet Aviv does not provide youth activities.  Bet Aviv celebrates Jewish Holidays and Life Cycle events with Kol Nefesh, a congregation focusing on children.  Click here to learn about Kol Nefesh.

4.  My son/daughter’s fiancé is not Jewish. Would your rabbi perform this marriage?

Yes. Our rabbi officiates at Jewish marriages for interfaith couples. Contact us to discuss your situation.

5.  My son/daughter’s spouse is not Jewish. Would your rabbi perform a baby naming for my grandchild?

Yes. Baby namings are a delightful addition to our Shabbat services. The grandparents, as well as both parents may choose to participate in the ceremony. Our cantor even sings a special song to the baby to commemorate the occasion.

6.  Does Bet Aviv have a cemetery?

Bet Aviv members may choose to purchase burial plots and services in the Columbia Memorial Park. We have a number of plots designated for our members in the Jewish section of this cemetery.

7.  Why should I join Bet Aviv instead of other synagogues in the area?

In a nutshell, we are a family that joyfully welcomes visitors, guests and new members to our midst. Should you come to a Shabbat service, you won’t find yourself standing alone. We’ll make a special point to introduce you to the congregation and to seek you out at the Oneg. For more reasons why you should join Bet Aviv, click here.

 

Our Rabbi Emeritus

June 20, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Our Clergy

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Rabbi Seth Bernstein was born and raised in Indianapolis, Indiana, and is a graduate of Indiana University. He was ordained from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in 1977. Part of his training included a year of studies at INTER-MET, an interfaith seminary in Washington D.C. Following ordination, he was Assistant and Associate Rabbi at Congregation Rodeph Shalom in New York, NY, from 1977-1986. During that time he was active in UJA-Federation’s singles and disabled activities. He was instrumental in founding the Shadchanus Bureau for introducing Jewish singles for the purpose of marriage. He received the General Assembly’s award for his work in 1982.

Rabbi Bernstein was selected as rabbi of Bet Aviv, Columbia, Maryland, in May, 2011. He retired on June 30, 2019.  In 1986 Rabbi Bernstein became the rabbi of Temple Sinai in Worcester, Massachusetts. He is trained in family therapy and hospital chaplaincy. He holds a Doctor of Ministry from Andover Newton Theological School in the areas of chaplaincy and family systems theory. His doctoral project was on the impact of serious illness on the family system at life cycle events. Since 1991, Rabbi Bernstein has served as the Jewish Chaplain at UMASS-Memorial Hospital and since its founding, has been the Pastoral Care Director of the Jewish Home Hospice in Worcester. He is a Board Certified Chaplain with the Association of Professional Chaplains and the National Association of Jewish Chaplains (N.A.J.C.). For the past two years Rabbi Bernstein served as the Chair of Certification of the N.A.J.C.

Rabbi Bernstein is the Rabbinic Founder of the H.E.A.R.T. Program in Worcester involving Temple Sinai and Emanuel Baptist Church in an after school tutorial program that received the Kuhn Social Action Award from the Union for Reform Judaism in 1995. He is the Past President of the Interfaith Coalition for the Homeless, Jewish Family Service of Worcester, the Worcester Pastoral Counseling Center, and co-President of Worcester Interfaith, a community organizing effort for Worcester and Central Massachusetts.

Rabbi Bernstein’s initiatives at Temple Sinai include a wide variety of adult education classes that he has taught. He taught 5th Grade Judaica and 7th Grade Judaism and Sexuality courses in addition to Confirmation class for 10th graders. He coordinated the effort to send a truck load of supplies to victims of Hurricane Katrina from Central Massachusetts and has been active locally and nationally with disaster relief efforts of the American Red Cross. He was active in the Worcester Clergy Police Partnership to help reduce crime in Worcester, especially involving young people. Rabbi Bernstein serves on the rabbinic cabinet of United Jewish Communities and Israel Bonds. He has been active in the mentoring and colleague-to-colleague efforts of the Central Conference of American Rabbis and currently serves as the responder to the Rabbinic Rapid Response effort to assist rabbis and their families who are in crisis. He is a member of the editorial team of the new Gates of Healing booklet to be published by the Central Conference of American Rabbis.

Interfaith Rabbi

Rabbi Bernstein believes that The Oakland Mills Interfaith Center presents a huge opportunity. Early in his career, the Rabbi studied with clergy of various faiths in an interfaith seminary in Washington, DC. He loved the engagement. He believes that “a lot of one’s thinking is influenced by how we see each other…being in each others’ context…finding commonalities, differences, and then embracing one another. To me, it’s a very exciting opportunity to live in each other’s house.” He is looking forward to learning more about The Meeting House, becoming involved in the planning, and learning more about the different faiths who worship there.

Teacher

Paraphrased from an Interview with Rabbi Bernstein: “Rabbi means teacher, and I see myself as a teacher. My teaching style is informal, and I do a lot of adult education. But I consider myself a pastoral rabbi. I like to deal with the real problems and joys in people’s lives…deaths, weddings, baby naming, illnesses. It has become more important to me, deepened my own faith, and allowed me to become more engaged with the members of the congregation. Being present in people’s lives defines me.”

Farewell

Bet Aviv said farewell to Seth and Marsha in a celebration on June 2, 2019.  Congregants and Friends contributed their thanks and appreciation for the time the eight years the Bernsteins have spent with us.  Click here to read about the celebration and enjoy the many tributes.

CONTACT INFORMATION

Email: rabbibernstein@betaviv.org

Phone:  410-992-9995

Directions

June 20, 2013 urjnetworkadmin About Us

Bet Aviv
The Meeting House
5885 Robert Oliver Place
Columbia, MD 21045
410-730-4090 / 301-596-6458

This page provides a map and directions to Bet Aviv at the Meeting House.

From Baltimore or Washington:
  1. Take I-95 to Maryland Route175
  2. Exit onto westbound Route 175, toward Columbia
  3. Turn left at Thunder Hill Road
  4. Thunder Hill Road dead-ends at The Meeting House; turn left onto Santiago Road
  5. Turn right at the first driveway into the parking lot.
From Points North or South of Columbia:
  1. Take U. S.29 to Maryland Route175
  2. Exit onto eastbound Route 175, toward Jessup
  3. Turn right at the first traffic light onto Thunder Hill Road
  4. Thunder Hill Road dead-ends at The Meeting House; turn left onto Santiago Road
  5. Turn right at the first driveway into the parking lot.
MAP

The map below shows the location of The Meeting House.  Click on Directions for step by step instructions on how to get there from your house.

5885 Robert Oliver Pl, Columbia, MD 21045

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Why Join?

June 20, 2013 urjnetworkadmin Membership

IT’S TIME TO BE THE FOCUS OF ATTENTION IN YOUR LIFE

By being an adult oriented congregation, its all about you and others like you. The education programs are for adults. The social action programs are those where adults can participate to make a difference. The services are adult-themed without Bar or Bat Mitzvah orientation. Together, we share issues of aging parents, preparation for retirement, and downsizing — we have moved on from being our kids’ social directors and chauffeurs.

FEEL THE PEACE AND JOY OF SHABBAT

Come join us at Shabbat services to learn from the thought-provoking teachings of our rabbi, Linda Joseph. Experience the joy of singing led by our cantor, Stephanie Weishaar. Feel a great sense of community as we join hands and sing the blessings at our Oneg Shabbats. Our members reach out to make guests and new members feel at home. We respect diversity and welcome couples, singles, and those in interfaith relationships into our family.

BROADEN YOUR JEWISH EDUCATION THROUGH RICH AND DIVERSE LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES

Do you want to learn more about the history of the liturgy or about humor in Jewish literature? Would you enjoy taking guided tours to places of Jewish significance? Are you ready for the interesting, inspiring ideas generated by our annual Gene Klein Scholar in Residence program? Bet Aviv provides a wealth of learning opportunities to satisfy your thirst for knowledge.

FULFILL YOUR DESIRE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD THROUGH VOLUNTEERING

As an organization that thrives on volunteer efforts, we welcome your experience and knowledge in contributing to our congregation as well as through supporting existing community efforts like Adopt-a-Road, Grassroots and the Soup Kitchen in Baltimore. Or gather a group to support your favorite cause — at Bet Aviv there are sure to be others who will help. Whether you want to mentor a school child, beautify the environment, assist in providing food for the homeless and needy, or help out with administrative tasks, Bet Aviv has a place for you.

BASK IN THE WARMTH OF COMMUNITY AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS

Take advantage of our social events to make new friends and have fun. Both our Men’s Club and Sisterhood offer a full range of programs and projects that encourage social interaction. Join us for trips to the theater, anniversary celebrations, lively discussions, and our annual Passover seder — just a sample of exciting events open to Bet Aviv members.

Membership

October 28, 2011 urjnetworkadmin Membership

This page summarizes what you need to know about joining Bet Aviv.

About Membership Learn about membership at Bet Aviv and find application forms.
Why Join Discover why you should join Bet Aviv.
FAQs Find the answers to some frequently asked questions.

Our History

October 28, 2011 urjnetworkadmin About Us

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A Saturday evening party was one part of our 15th Anniversary Celebration Weekend.

In December 1997, a group of men and woman convened at a private home for worship and study and to work through their idea of a synagogue community. Over time, and as more people attended the monthly services, the gathering evolved into a congregation. And although many of the congregants were no longer in the spring of their own lives, they named this burgeoning congregation Bet Aviv–House or Tent of Spring–tent for its welcoming policy of inclusion and spring to symbolize its energy and the power of Jewish community to renew lives at every juncture.

Soon, the group was guided to Rabbi Marc Lee Raphael, who conducted his first Bet Aviv service in May 1998. Not long after, the synagogue settled into a neighborhood center, Amherst House. Morris Levine, the first President, had the foresight to set aside reserve funds which allowed us to move in fall, 2004, as permanent owners, to the Meeting House in Oakland Mills. It felt like home, especially since it was in this space that, from the beginning, we had held our High Holiday services.  After the first couple of years, Marge Auerbach joined us as our Cantor and served until she retired in 2014.

After Morris’s term, Saul Lubitz assumed the presidency, followed by Barbara Hurwitz, Sami Klein, Howie Feldmesser, Richard Tobin, co-presidents Geri Epstein and Marty Stein, Lynn Green, Bill Salganik, Richard Rosenblatt, Richard Madonna and Azi Siner. Our current presidents Lou Ebert and Art Brody. Each president brought his or her own talents and strengths to the position and left an enduring legacy.

Founded with approximately 35 families, we hit our peak at 262  families strong. We have celebrated several bnai mitzvot, including a memorable one for nine adult women in 2005 and our most recent one for six adults in November 2016. In June of 2022 we celebrated a single Adult Bar Mitzvah.  On our fifth anniversary, we retold the Bet Aviv story in narrative and song. We celebrated our 10th anniversary in November 2008 and our 20th anniversary celebration weekend in June 2018.

In May 2011 we bid a fond farewell to Rabbi Raphael as he retired, having served as Bet Aviv’s spiritual leader since its early days. In July 2011 we welcomed Rabbi Seth Bernstein as our new spiritual leader.  In July 2014 we welcomed Cantor Linda Baer to lead us in song.  When Rabbi Bernstein retired in 2019, we welcomed Rabbi Linda Joseph as our rabbi.   For several years, Cantor Stephanie Weishaar, served as our interim cantor.  We are delighted to have Beth Rubens grace our services with her beautiful voice as our current Cantorial Soloist.

Beyond our twice monthly services, led by Rabbi Joseph and Cantorial Soloist Beth Rubens and enhanced by occasional appearances by the Bet Aviv Choir, Bet Aviv has, since its founding, demonstrated its commitment to social action and study through adult education classes.  Our Lunch and Learn classes are a highlight for many members.  We have a strong Women of Bet Aviv group and a growing Men’s Club.  Recently we added a Caring Committee and social groups like the Singles Club.

Since its inception, Bet Aviv has flourished and grown without sacrificing its original intent to construct a vital synagogue community, enriched with experience and welcoming to all.

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